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  • You Have to Know What Kind of Love You Deserve to Attract It

    By Melissa Terrels “Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi My ex used to stomp out of the house every time we had an argument. Literally, he would leave. And usually before he left he’d smash something. One time…

  • Signs Of a Toxic Relationship

    By: Advisor Desiree It’s likely that we’ve all found ourselves in a toxic relationship at one point without even knowing it, whether it be in love, family or friendships. The first sign of being in such a negative relationship is losing your sense of self. If a relationship changes you it should be for the…

  • 5 Ways to Deal With Envy So It Doesn’t Steal Your Happiness

    By: Ashley Lilly “Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to other people.” ~Unknown Throughout this year, I’ve noticed myself feeling envious of other people. Particularly, I would feel envious of the famous people that I would see on television, read about in magazines, and follow on social media. I wouldn’t even be envious of them…

  • Are You In The Friend Zone?

    By: Advisor Rhonda You can’t explain the feeling you get when you two are together..all you know is that it’s magnetic! The chemistry and the connection is the strongest you have ever felt with anyone. You find yourself thinking about them all the time and you still get butterflies whenever you are around them. With…

  • 5 Tips to Create a Loving Relationship, With Fewer Disappointments

    By: Lesya Li “Love does not obey our expectations; it obeys our intentions.” ~Lloyd Strom Have you ever felt less about a relationship when it didn’t exactly pan out like a fairy tale? I sure did. I had it stuck in my mind that a great relationship should be picture perfect. When reality would give me a…

  • Live by Your Values and Everything Else Will Fall into Place

    By Claire Hodgson “Until you make peace with who you are, you will never be content with what you have.” ~Doris Mortman As I sit here writing this, I am still in the middle of a huge shift in my life, a shift that has seen me move from living by other people’s values and expectations…

  • What to Do When People Always Underestimate You

    By: Rylie Robinson “You can’t base your life on other people’s expectations.” ~Stevie Wonder Being blatantly underestimated is simply a part of my life. No matter what I’m doing, the ordinary will seem extraordinary, and the extraordinary will seem insurmountable to those who look at me for the first time. There is no way I am…

  • The Secret to Replacing Agitation with Calmness

    By: Jenna Drew “Calmness is the cradle of power.” ~Josiah Gilbert Holland I was interested, recently, to find that our local supermarket had set up an area with ten self-service checkouts. For years I‘d accepted the normal method of bagging and paying for my stuff. No stress there. But they’d installed some new technology and I…

  • Life Is Shaping Us Through Our Dreams

    By: Alexander Dunlop “With ‘I’ eliminated, this is Nirvana, here and now.”  ~ Buddha I remember when I started learning Spanish in college. I wanted to visit Spain. I had grand ideas about a romantic voyage. And yes, I had a foreign language credit to fill. If you know the Spanish language at all, you know…

  • Why You Might Feel Like You’re Always the Victim in Relationships

    By: Holly Smith “Your relationship to yourself is and always will be directly reflected in all your relationships with others.” ~Vironika Tugaleva Have you ever heard someone say, “I don’t know why this is happening to me?” or, “My ex is really crazy”? I have said myself, “It’s not my fault he’s a jerk.” It can be…

  • 7 Tips for Pursuing Your Passion, Even If You Feel Behind

    By AJ Walton “Don’t worry about what the world needs.  Ask what makes you come alive and do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” ~Howard Thurman From center stage I looked out into the crowd as the stage lights warmed my face and did their best to obscure my vision….

  • How Painful Relationships Can Be The Best Teachers

    By: Jill Gross “Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places.” ~Unknown “This is it,” I thought. I finally found the man I had been waiting for. Of course, it had taken me thirty-nine years and a painful divorce from my husband of ten years. But that was all worth it, I told myself,…

  • Knowing When to Give Space Or Move On

    By: Psychic Rhonda You may have consulted a psychic and have been told to give things time. This to me is a very difficult thing to do especially when going through a rough patch with your partner because it can put you in a state of emotional limbo..feeling as though absence will either push you…

  • Does Your Partner Often Get Angry and Shut Down Emotionally?

    By: Natalie Edwards “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~Carl Jung Three years ago I was on top of the world after realizing I had fallen in love with my best friend. Relationships this rare are beautiful, until one vital piece of them breaks down:…

  • Baby Steps: A Simple Guide to Doing Something New

    By: Harriet Cabelly “It is better to take many small steps in the right direction than to make a great leap forward only to stumble backward.” ~Proverb Two years ago, after hearing Gretchen Rubin of The Happiness Project, talk about setting up one’s own blog, I went home and did just that. It had been something I…

  • You Have the Right to Feel Safe in Your Relationships (Even with Your Family)

    By:  Heidi Juniper “Anger is a signal, and one worth listening to[…]  It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention.”  ~Harriet G. Lerner, The Dance of Anger My journey to authentic safety began, at long last, with my discovery of my own anger. Anger is my least favorite emotion. I don’t even…

  • 4 Easy Steps to Manifest A New Job

    By: Psychic Rhonda Sooo..your current job has run its course. Some of you may feel over-worked and underpayed, some of you may just be seeking a career change or perhaps the work enviroment is just too negative. Regardless of what your reasons are, I think everyone can agree when you are fed up, work becomes…

  • 6 Questions to Help You Love Yourself More When It Feels Impossible

    By: Vironika Tugaleva “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha In 2012, self-love became the most important thing in my life. After self-loathing and addiction led me to rock bottom, there was nowhere to go but up. When someone asked me last year how long I’d…

  • Dealing With Jealousy

    By: Psychic Janette As far I can remember, I have always had jealous people around me. Was it my cousin, my siblings or someone else who is trying his all tricks to drive me away from someone I dearly love. When I was a kid, it was my cousin who was jealous of that chance…

  • How I Forgave What I Couldn’t Forget

     By: Patty Richmond “Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that their behavior was ‘OK.’ What it does mean is that we’re ready to move on. To release the heavy weight. To shape our own life, on our terms, without any unnecessary burdens. Forgiveness is pure freedom—and forgiveness is a choice.” ~Dr. Suzanne Gelb I remember the feeling…