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  • Love Shows Up When You Do

     By: Melissa McCaughan “Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you.” ~John de Paola After six months of being single after my divorce, I wanted to date again. I was still afraid of failure and rejection, but I wanted to try. I felt the best way to get over it…

  • On Perfect Timing: When Things Aren’t Happening Fast Enough

    By: Sonya Derian “After winter comes the summer. After night comes the dawn. And after every storm, there comes clear, open skies.” ~Samuel Rutherford I was talking to someone this week about his feeling that things weren’t happening fast enough. That with all he was doing, intending, and putting out there more should be happening,…

  • What to Do When People in Your Life Don’t Want to Change

     By: Cloris Kylie Stock “If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ~Mary Engelbreit We all know at least one person who we think needs a self-help course or book more than we do. They’re the “wrong” ones, at least in our minds. I…

  • How to Step Out of the Drama Triangle and Find Real Peace

     By: Amaya Pryce “Keep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern, and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours.” ~Epictetus  Are you addicted to drama? I was, but I didn’t know it. I thought I was just responding to life, to what was happening….

  • The Highs and Lows Of Being The Other Woman

    By: Psychic Rhonda So lately you have spent the majority of your nights pacing the floor and being torn between being patient or walking away. Whether your relationship with someone else’s mate was planned or not one thing is for sure, you have found the situation much harder than you anticipated. You may have told…

  • The Law of Attraction in Love: The Effects of Negative and Positive Thinking

    By: Psychic Shawn How Do Thoughts Control Events ? Firstly our thoughts create and in order to create we must first think, and if you think positive or negative, then that will be the outcome of events. Overall all the effects and changes you will see in your partner are often determined by your mind….

  • Letting go of Control and Being Present with Uncertainty

    By: Lauren Stahl “The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably deal with.” ~Tony Robbins I didn’t want to believe that uncertainty would be a part of my life. I wanted control. I wanted to know exactly what was going to happen next, and I didn’t….

  • What to Do When You Love Someone Who Hurts You

    By: Lauren Erickson-Viereck “Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.” ~Pema Chödrön There is a person in my life who I love with all my heart, but in this relationship I struggle to keep a full cup myself. They are family, the situation is complicated and tender. But…

  • What It Really Means to Have a Supportive Partner

    By: Natalie Edwards “The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you’re with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.” ~Nishan Panwar Let me ask you a question. When was the last time you felt supported? When was the last time you felt safe,…

  • How to Move On When Your Ex Already Has

    By: Vishnu “Like a sandcastle, all is temporary. Build it, tend it, enjoy it. And when the time comes, let it go.” ~Jack Kornfield I picked up the butter cookies and a small postcard-sized painting I had brought for her. I took the third-floor hotel elevator down. Closing my eyes, I took several deep breaths….

  • Coping With Trust Issues

    By: Psychic Rhonda It is very difficult getting past a betrayal and broken trust in a relationship and sometimes some people are not able to. You love your partner dearly, but you can’t seem to get past that infidelity that happened before. You question every move and everything suddenly becomes suspicious. Working late, if they…

  • Why Love Addiction Deprives Us of Love, and How to Let It In

    By: Banu Sekendur “What we seek in love is finding someone with whom we feel safe to reveal our true self.” ~Karen Salmansohn I wasn’t always in a relationship, but I was almost always in love. I even had crushes in kindergarten. I hated school because my grade school teacher didn’t like me. Maybe my crushes helped me…

  • Understanding Love Relationships in the Work Setting

    By: Psychic Tonya How do you know if someone is interested in you and is invested in getting to know you outside of work? It does not matter if it’s a coworker, supervisor, or boss, sign language is the key factor to understanding if someone is invested in getting to know you. For instance at…

  • How to Start Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Your Needs

    By: Naomi Arnold “You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” ~Tony Gaskins I highly value being loyal, honest, empathetic, and supportive. I am also partial to advocating for the underdog. As a result, I have historically attempted to be a ‘hero’ in situations of difficulty,…

  • 6 Ways to Make Dating Less Frustrating

    By: Melodi Cowan “You are strong when you know your weaknesses. You are beautiful when you appreciate your flaws. You are wise when you learn from your mistakes.” ~Unknown Social discovery apps and online dating sites provide us with an incredible amount of dating options. It should be easier to find the right person. Ironically,…

  • Low Self-Esteem Can Alter Your Thoughts

    By: Psychic Janette Hello, I am Janette and I want to write about how low self-esteem alters our thinking and emotions. I have been working on myself for a long time and I have noticed something important about this. Low self-esteem (most of the cases) comes from our past. Perhaps you were bullied during school…

  • A Broken Heart Is an Open Heart

    By: Jamie Greenwood “A broken heart is not the same as sadness. Sadness occurs when the heart is stone cold and lifeless. On the contrary, there is an unbelievable amount of vitality in a broken heart.” ~Elizabeth Lesser “I love you but I’m not in love with you” was the line my first boyfriend used…

  • How Relationship Issues Can Lead to Growth (and Why It’s a Daily Process)

    By: Zachary Goodson “When something bad happens you have three choices. You can let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.” ~Unknown Relationships are tough. Even more difficult is maintaining healthy boundaries within a relationship. My head hurts and I feel like I’m going to throw up. Let…

  • Are You in Love with the Idea of Being in Love?

    By: Annie Oudom “When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ~Viktor Frankl “But no. We can give it another chance; I know we can. We just have to try harder…” were my desperate words to him as he was breaking up with me for the second time. As…

  • The Effects of Settling

    By: Psychic Rhonda Everyone has their ideal mate in mind and what type of relationship they desire but sometimes we meet the total opposite or someone who may only possess half of the characteristics we want and the relationship works out beautifully. However, there are times when we choose someone who is out of our…