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Loving Someone You Cant Have- 7 Tips That Can Help

07.05.2019 in Healing, Love, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Self Love, Stress Management

Among the most agonizing feelings in the world is that of loving someone who doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love doesn’t just take an emotional toll, but also a physical one. If love isn’t being very kind to you and the object of your affection has friend-zoned you or worse still, refuses to acknowledge your existence, you can step up and take control of your life and find someone who loves you back the way you deserve.

 

Here are seven tips that can help you get started to living beyond the pain.

1. Talk About Your Feelings

It’s not always easy to talk about unrequited love,

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Tired Of Feeling Lost? What To Do After A Breakup

26.03.2019 in Relationships, Self Love, Soulmate, Spirituality, Stress Management

From Sivana By Martha Bodyfelt

Divorce and breakups are tough for many reasons. Not only are we dealing with the emotions and logistics and finances, but after the dust has settled, we may feel like our life’s plans have changed direction. The life you planned and your vision of the future may disappear, leaving you with a feeling of not knowing what to do or where to go from here.

But when you feel like this, don’t panic! There is merely one thing you must remember:

 

You May Feel Lost Because Your Internal GPS is No Longer Working

So many of us had our entire lives invested in our relationships and our families.

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Beyond Sorry: A Better Way to Handle Conflict in Your Relationship

19.03.2019 in Love, Personal Development, Relationships, Self Love, Soulmate

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“Sorry isn’t always enough. Sometimes you actually have to change.” ~Unknown

When I was young I was like every other kid, always in and out of trouble. I pushed the boundaries of what was acceptable in order to see what I could get away with. When I pushed, I’d often keep on pushing until someone said “stop.”

During my childhood I heard lots of:

“STOP!!” 

Quickly followed by:

“Say you’re sorry.”

Say those two magical words, “I’m sorry,” and all the pain will go away.

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How To Get Your Confidence Back After Divorce

08.03.2019 in Healing, Life Path, Love, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love

From Sivana By Martha Bodyfelt

Divorce really has a way of wrecking our lives. Not only are we learning to be single again, we are also forced to adapt to new realities of a change in lifestyle, schedules, and retirement plans.

As if these challenges are not overwhelming enough, there’s another struggle we must endure after divorce: learning how to rebuild our self-esteem.

It’s easy to understand why this is such an issue. When your relationship ends, you may feel rejected. You may feel unworthy. You may think that nobody will ever find you attractive and worthy of love.

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8 THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE EXPLORING CHAKRA HEALING

8 Things To Know Before Exploring Chakra Healing

25.02.2019 in Healing, Health, Life Skills, Personal Development, Psychics, Self Love, Spirituality, Stress Management

From Sivana By Vanessa Williams

This post is for those who are just beginning to explore the mysterious pathways of spiritual enlightenment.

There are a lot of questions that plague the mind, particularly when you’re starting out. What is it going to be like? Where will it take you? This is just a glimpse of what goes on in the mind of an average beginner. Here I intend to address some of the most common concerns about chakra balancing and healing that you need to know before you’re headed out on this way.

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It’s Not Settling to Love Someone Who Doesn’t Match Your Fantasy

10.01.2019 in Empowerment, Healing, Love, Personal Development, Relationships, Self Love

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“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.” ~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

I’ve always been a dreamer. A really big dreamer. For the most part, it’s served me well. I was the first person in my family to graduate from college. A private college, magna cum laude, while raising four children alone. I don’t do mediocrity.

I worked hard and brought our family out of poverty single handedly. We moved to a better neighborhood, built a nice house, and went on vacations. I was no ordinary woman.

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When Someone Cheats or Mistreats You, It’s About Them, Not You

07.01.2019 in Healing, Health, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Stress Management

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“Pain makes you stronger. Tears make you braver. Heartbreak makes you wiser. So thank the past for a better future.” ~Unknown

I used to think when someone cheated on me that I was flawed.

You see, I had a core belief that there was something wrong with me. I never felt enough. I’m not even sure I can fully articulate this feeling, but whatever it was, I just didn’t feel enough. Slim enough, pretty enough, clever enough, worthy enough, or just, well, anything enough.

I’ve now come to see that when someone mistreats you it has almost nothing to do with you.

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How Gratitude Paves The Way To Sustainable Happiness

17.11.2018 in Gratitude, Holidays, Life Skills, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Spirituality, Stress Management

From Sivana By Adela Belin

We all are different in terms of shape, size, color and thinking patterns. But still, there is a thing that is common in all of us; we all want to be happy. The connection between happiness and gratefulness is quite obvious, but a majority of people tend to overlook it. Gratitude is the quality of being thankful, and if you take it at a deeper level, what do you feel thankful for?

We feel thankful for the things that make us happy, and by thinking about the things that make us happy,

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5 Ways To Clear Your Aura

05.11.2018 in Empowerment, Healing, Health, Life Skills, Manifestation, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Spirituality, Stress Management

From Sivana By Matt Caron

Auras are a direct reflection of our attitude and spiritual inclinations. They influence others in subtle ways, and our surroundings too. This is why it’s important to learn how to calm the mind and shift negative energy out.

These tips will do exactly that!

1) Take A Shower or Bath

Showers have a psychological healing effect, which in turn allows the mind to let go of negative thoughts and the aura to become more clear. As you shower, watch the water disappear down the drain or disperse away from your feet,

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How To Tell If You’ve Found Your Twin Flame

03.11.2018 in Love, Relationships, Self Love, Soulmate, Spirituality, Twin Flame, Valentine's Day

From Sivana By Jennifer Aurelia

We all are walking around this planet with relationships that nurture us, challenge us, and cheerlead us on our path for growth and evolution. Each one of us come here with a soul group, a bunch of souls who have agreed to help us as we help them learn our planned earthly lessons, make our mistakes, release our karmic debt and journey through this life. Soul mates can be our sister, brother, mother in-law, spouse, co-worker, best friend, ex-boss or someone as unassuming as a homeless person on the street. We have so many soul mates or soul friends that come and go in our lives and even when one might come in &

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Here are 4 Tips That Help When A Relationship Ends

29.10.2018 in Love, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Self Love, Stress Management

 

Written by: Johnmendu

The ending of a relationship can be a very traumatic experience for both partners. The unfortunate thing is not all love relationships work. No one would ever wish to have a repetition of the same things from relationships, but breakups are always a sign of incompatibility. At times the ending may be amicable but the unfortunate times are when it turns hostile. It does not matter whether it is you or your partner who called for the breakup but the most important thing is to learn on how to push on and recover from the painful ordeal.

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7 Self-Love Practices That Helped Me Heal from a Devastating Divorce

25.10.2018 in Healing, Love, Personal Development, Relationships, Self Love, Stress Management

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“Unlike self-criticism, which asks if you’re good enough, self-compassion asks what’s good for you?” ~Kristin Neff

My husband and family were my world. Although I’d found joy in my passion of writing, my heart revolved around my marriage. I thought we were happy. Then one day, he dropped the bomb: “I don’t love you anymore.”

Two weeks later, I found out he’d fallen in love with another woman who lived across the world. He didn’t want me anymore.

Sure, I’d known for a while something was wrong—that knowing deep in your gut that you can’t put your finger on,

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Overcoming Envy: How to Stop Feeling Inferior and Insecure

10.10.2018 in Healing, Health, Life Skills, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Stress Management

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“Comparison is the thief of joy.” ~Theodore Roosevelt

If you are suffering from the painful sting of envy, know that you are not alone. I was there too, for a very long time. Envy can be a crippling emotion. For me it has been connected to my depression, anxiety, and obsessive-compulsive disorder.

It has been a very painful twenty years since my attachment to envy began, involving comparison, competition, judgment, harsh criticism of myself and others, in a never-ending, futile attempt to soothe my wounded ego.

I was constantly,

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Why We Might Feel Lonely and What to Do About It

05.10.2018 in Healing, Health, Life Path, Life Skills, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Stress Management

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“We have all known the long loneliness and we have learned that the only solution is love and that love comes with community.” ~Dorothy Day

Throughout my life it’s been really hard to admit when I’ve felt lonely.

I’ve been through intense periods where I have been without others.

I’ve been surrounded by people yet have felt no real connections.

The people I have loved have been physically or emotionally absent.

I’ve simply been alone over weekends, over weeks, over months, over years, and it has been grueling and horrible.

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There’s a Difference Between Alone and Lonely

04.10.2018 in Empowerment, Healing, Health, Life Skills, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Stress Management

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“He who lives in harmony with himself lives in harmony with the world.” ~Marcus Aurelius

At the end of August I moved to Madison, Wisconsin. This was my second major move in a year.

In both cases, I was separated from almost my entire prior social network. After college, making friends seems like a totally different ball game.

Here in Madison, I wake up before five in the morning to go to work and don’t get back until six or seven on most days of the week. This leaves me feeling exhausted,

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Don’t Let Anyone’s Criticism or Judgment Define Who You Are

25.09.2018 in Empowerment, Life Skills, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Stress Management

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“There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally.” ~Don Miguel Ruiz

I was a chunky, shy little girl who was attached to my mom’s leg. She was my protector and served as a source of unconditional love.

As I left my mom’s side and went off to school, I encountered many new faces that introduced me to criticism and judgment.

Being judged by your physical attributes as an adult, in a society that constantly strives for physical perfection,

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Why I Stopped Trying to Fix Myself and How I Healed by Doing Nothing

14.08.2018 in Empowerment, Healing, Health, Life Path, Life Skills, Personal Development, Self Love, Stress Management

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“Everything in the universe is within you.” ~Rumi

When I was twenty-three, I lost my job through chronic illness. I thought my life had ended, and I spent the next few years an anxious, panicky mess—often hysterical. Eventually, I took off to scour the globe for well-being techniques, and searched far and wide for the meaning of life and how to become well again.

If you’re chronically ill, like I was, whether physically or emotionally, you’ve probably experienced the same misunderstanding, the same crazy-making “well, you look okay to me” comments,

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Why I Got Caught Up in the Drama of an On-and-Off Relationship

13.08.2018 in Empowerment, Personal Development, Relationships, Self Love, Stress Management, toxic relationship

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“One reason people resist change is because they focus on what they have to give up instead of what they have to gain.” ~Rick Godwin

Dave and I met earlier this January. I was immediately attracted to his aquamarine eyes and his tattoos. I met him on the eve of my twenty-sixth birthday and, based on our interaction, I assumed we’d have a casual fling. Things didn’t end that simply, to my surprise.

When we were lying in bed together that first night, holding hands, he turned to me and asked if there was any chance we could get to know one another without sleeping with other people.

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“You’re Too Sensitive” Is a Lie

07.08.2018 in Empowerment, Health, Life Path, Life Skills, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Self Love, Stress Management

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“I used to dislike being sensitive. I thought it made me weak. But take away that single trait, and you take away the very essence of who I am. You take away my conscience, my ability to empathize, my intuition, my creativity, my deep appreciation of the little things, my vivid inner life, my keen awareness of others pain and my passion for it all. ~Unknown

 

My phone rang and it was my boyfriend. I slipped out into the hall. “Hey you,” I answered. We’d been texting about getting together that night.

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Dating from a Place of Self-Love: How Being Yourself Changes Everything

07.08.2018 in Life Skills, Love, Personal Development, Relationships, Self Love, Soulmate

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“You must learn to love yourself before you can love someone else.” ~Sonja Mylin

 

It’s tough being out there.

I remember myself some years ago embracing the world of online dating. Everyone kept telling me “be yourself” (and I kept telling myself that), but when I was actually on a date, “myself” would fly out the window.

I’d go hard on the impressing, second-guess myself, drink too much, look for every little thing we had in common (even if the person did not feel right),

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