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Loving Someone You Cant Have- 7 Tips That Can Help

07 May 2019, by psychictxt in Healing, Love, Personal Development, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Self Love, Stress Management

Among the most agonizing feelings in the world is that of loving someone who doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love doesn’t just take an emotional toll, but also a physical one. If love isn’t being very kind to you and the object of your affection has friend-zoned you or worse still, refuses to acknowledge your existence, you can step up and take control of your life and find someone who loves you back the way you deserve.

 

Here are seven tips that can help you get started to living beyond the pain.

1. Talk About Your Feelings

It’s not always easy to talk about unrequited love, but burying your feelings is not the solution to your problem. Burying your feelings prevents healthy healing and makes you more prone to a faux pas that can ruin your relationship if you are still friends. A good way to handle your feelings is to talk to a trusted friend or write a journal. This will make it much easier to enjoy your time together when you run into them and you’ll be less likely to ask questions that hurt you. Acting hurt or asking questions such as “Do you think we both might ever have had a chance?” is counterproductive.

2. Focus On Yourself

Rather than wallowing in self-pity, a great way to beat the pain is to turn your attention to yourself and to your hobbies. If you’ve let yourself go in the process of pursuing someone, it’s time to pay attention to yourself and pamper yourself. Get a makeover, join a gym or join a club. If you’re not feeling very social at the moment, why not get a new hobby? Gardening can be fulfilling. Or, if you love music, consider learning to play a new instrument. Hobbies can make you feel better about yourself, which in turn diminishes the hurt feelings behind unrequited love.

3. Don’t Isolate Yourself

While it may be very tempting to just curl up in a corner and let the pain wash over your senses, this isn’t going to help you heal. A human touch is crucial to emotional and mental healing. So surround yourself with friends and family who can offer support and guidance. Avoid pessimists or negative people. Rather, spend most of your time with positive companions and you’re more likely to imbibe their positive mindset. The right association can also be key to letting go of your feelings and maybe moving on and meeting someone more worthy of your love.

4. Love Yourself

At times, we are our worst critic. We may spend hours trying to analyze what went wrong, whether we weren’t good enough or whether there was something we could have done better. If this is you, you need to stop and love yourself. Forgive yourself for real and perceived faults to heal faster. You are still worthy of love and deserve to be happy.

5. Recognize Weak Moments

Healing your heart when you love someone but cannot be with them is a long process. Love can often be like an addiction and breaking free from your addiction to a person can be a massive challenge. Despite your best efforts, you’re bound to have weak moments where you feel you’ve gone back to square one. Or, there may be days when your emotions are raw and you just cannot let go. This is normal and is not a failure on your part. Don’t pretend that you’re okay on bad days. Call a trusted friend or take a nap. You’ll be surprised at how much your heart and mind heal when you sleep.

6. Limit Contact

If you can handle being just friends, good for you! However, most of us find it excruciating to be friend-zoned with someone we love. Meeting the one you love can bring back old memories, intensify unfulfilled emotions and reinforce painful yearning. At times, the best way to move forward is to limit contact or to cut contact entirely. While this may seem to be almost impossible, you can do it! Seeing someone you love being happy without you, or worse still, happy with someone else, can be beyond painful. So do yourself a favor and limit contact even if you can’t cut contact entirely. Limiting contact also applies to social media feeds. Hide their feeds or un-follow them – you don’t need constant reminders of how happy they are without you.

7.  Get Back Into The Dating Game

While it may seem unthinkable to love someone else, the truth is that life does move on. There are many more fish in the sea, and you’re bound to go fishing when you’re hungry and stop mourning the one that got away. You don’t have to get back into the dating game immediately. However, take baby steps towards meeting new people. You never know when you’ll meet the real love of your live – someone who will love you with the same passion as you love them!¬† In summary, yes, it is painful to love someone who doesn’t love you back. Although your heart is breaking, it is not the end of your love life. It’s okay to sulk and wallow in misery for a while. However, once you’ve given yourself a bit of time, step up and flex your heart-muscles to show how strong you are. And when you’re ready, love will find you.


Are you having a tough time moving on from a failed relationship? Feel down about yourself after a recent difficult connection? If so, reach out directly to any one of our talented psychic advisors. They can look into your past relationships and provide you with the guidance you need today for a better future.

 

 

8 COMMENTS
  • Debbie mills Reply

    A reading would be wonderful right now please. I would like to know if a pass love will reach out to me and want to change his ways to be with me

    • psychictxt Reply

      Hello Debbie, Thank you for your message. To get further guidance and to get answers to your questions, please contact one of our psychic advisors on our app -PsychicTxt. They will be able to help you with all your questions and concerns

      Best Wishes, From PsychicTxt

      • Maria sweeney Reply

        I would like to know if I am getting my husband back

        • psychictxt Reply

          Hello Maria , Thank you for your message. To get further guidance and to get answers to your questions, please contact one of our psychic advisors on our app. They will be able to help you with all your questions and concerns

          Best Wishes, From PsychicTxt

  • Angela Haynes Reply

    I have loved someone since we were 12 years old. He was very much a geek and I was a get along with all crouds but would not show my true feelings. I was even mean to him. I did not tell him how I felt then moved away at 15 years old and didn’t even speak with him again untill 2016. I was in another state, married and trying to be a good and proper wife; so still I did not tell him my true feelings. In 2017 my marriage ended, I moved back home, and he and I confessed our love of 23 years and instantly we started our relationship. It has since been ripped apart but I am still in love. I’ve tried to move on but noone is him. I feel unable to love another though I try, I am open to love and I want to love and be loved. What do I do?

    • psychictxt Reply

      Hello Angela, Thank you for your message. To get further guidance and to get answers to your questions, please contact one of our psychic advisors on our app -PsychicTxt. They will be able to help you with all your questions and concerns

      Best Wishes, From PsychicTxt

  • Angela Reply

    Will my husband and his 3 mistresses be arrested soon for trying to harm me and my child. Will they feel the hurt I did from the evil ways they did me ? Will the one he asked to marry him figure out he is using her like the others. He was on alot of drugs and told family he used them all for what he wanted will the homewreckers get the krama they deserve?

    • psychictxt Reply

      Hello Angela, Thank you for your message. To get further guidance and to get answers to your questions, please contact one of our psychic advisors on our app -PsychicTxt. They will be able to help you with all your questions and concerns

      Best Wishes, From PsychicTxt

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