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The Scorpio Full Moon — Illumination And Transformation

From Sivana By Arwen Bardsley

The Full Moon on 18/19th May 2019 rises in the sign of Scorpio, a water sign, always pregnant with emotional energy. Scorpio is often feared because it is a true representation of the dark, inner self that we often don’t want to reveal to the world.

We spend so much time and energy being afraid of our own authenticity due to societal expectations and the overbearing compare and despair culture of 24-hour media with everyone being the superstar in the movie of their life, put on display – the ‘good’ bits that is – for all to see.

5 Signs That He is Boyfriend Material

One question I have been asked a lot is whether or not the newest and greatest guy is truly boyfriend material. Will it last? Will he treat you in a manner you deserve or will he turn out like all the other Joe Schmoes who whoosh in, sweep you off your feet and then disappear without a trace. This happens all too often and is hurtful, disrespectful to you and ultimately, a waste of your valuable time.

It’s not easy to find the right connection. It’s not easy to feel an intense bond with someone and have it run the distance.

The Secret Of Transforming Any Troubling Relationship

From Sivana By Guy Finley

We all know how it feels when another person – especially someone we say we love – does something we don’t like. What happens to the love in a moment like that? It flies out the window as we resist what the other person is doing. They are bringing up reactions in us that make us uncomfortable, and so we push them away, criticize them, and blame them for the way we feel. It’s a common response, but when we do that, we’re wasting an opportunity for our own transformation.

5 Things You Need to Know About Cheating, Affairs and Infidelity

BY CATHY MEYER

Affairs are as old as marriage itself!

The union, in marriage of two members of the opposite sex is a tradition that has been around since men were living in caves. So have extra-marital affairs. Since almost the beginning of time, humans have believed that marriage was important in maintaining a cohesive, healthy society. Another belief that was collectively held about marriage was the idea that the union was to be monogamous. Despite this belief, some human beings can’t seem to live a monogamous lifestyle. Research has shown that affairs are as old as marriage itself.

3 Tips to Finding Your True Love, Your Soul Mate, Your Twin Flame

From Sivana By Cheryl Bruedigam:

There are soul mates, and then there are soul mates.

Soul mates may occur in various forms and relationships, including kindred-spirit types, karmic relationships, and the ultimate: twin flames.

Kindred Spirits

Kindred-spirit types of soul mates share the bond of like-mindedness, a recognizable relationship of some type from a past life, and the attributes of a shared soul-group.

These people come and go throughout your life; some stay, but many will enter your life briefly and then move on,

Here are 4 Tips That Help When A Relationship Ends

Written by: Johnmendu

The ending of a relationship can be a very traumatic experience for both partners. The unfortunate thing is not all love relationships work. No one would ever wish to have a repetition of the same things from relationships, but breakups are always a sign of incompatibility. At times the ending may be amicable but the unfortunate times are when it turns hostile. It does not matter whether it is you or your partner who called for the breakup but the most important thing is to learn on how to push on and recover from the painful ordeal.

Dating After Divorce (Do it!)

From Sivana By Sonya tomas 

“We’re getting into mating season” my girlfriend mentioned, now that parkas were being traded for bare legs with the warmer weather. She was encouraging me to write a post on dating. Hmm…where to begin?! Back when I got divorced, I had originally felt like my dating muscles had atrophied to Jell-o. But now I’m grateful that my curiosity for what’s possible long overshadowed my shyness and fear of rejection. So this post is to encourage those who deep down want to bare their legs again but are feeling hesitant about jumping back into the dating scene after a break-up.

How Non-Attachment Can Benefit Your Relationship

By M. J. Ross

“You only lose what you cling to.” ~Buddha

I remember one of my first mindfulness classes that pertained to impermanence. I went home in a bit of a slump.

Nothing is permanent; everything ends; “This too, shall pass.” It was quite a shock to the system.

After getting over what, on surface level, seemed to be incredibly dire, I realized that this could be incredibly liberating.

Enter the principle of non-attachment, a notion that has the potential to aid in the evolving nature of day-to-day life.

7 Ways to Manage a Break Up and Work Through the Pain

By James Gummer

“Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities.” ~Dalai Lama

Some breakups are so bad that they make you hate the sunshine. It’s up there gleaming, looking down on you, being all sunny despite the fact that you feel like a slice of hell. The suffering is relentless. The sky is ugly.

The ending of my last relationship was awful. I think it hurt as bad as it did because this wasn’t some random young woman who had just walked into my life.

How to Deal with a Break Up

By Alana Mbanza

“No feeling is final.” ~Rainer Maria Rilke

I met him the last semester of college and was instantly attracted to him.  I was definitely attracted to him physically, but it was the way he sat in class with such quiet confidence and mystery that made me long to know him.

I practically drooled all over my desk whenever he spoke, but couldn’t even bring myself to say, “Hello.”  One night out, I saw him standing by the bar. I told my friend that I had a crush on him and she promptly gave me two choices: Go speak to him or,